RELATIONSHIP... A word with a simple definition... Yet a complicated meaning it holds in our lives...... There is hardly any person who can claim to understand the complete meaning of this word..... And maintaining a relationship perfectly, or rather to say ideally, is a distant dream in everybody's life..
Most of us fail to understand the core ingredients of a perfect relationship... Be it the affection filled father-daughter relation, or the romantic relation of two love-birds, or the evergreen 'will stand by your side' relationship between two buddies..... Each of them has something in common, fueling the very need of the relationship.. Any imbalance of these factors and, WHOOSH!!!!!!!!......... A straightaway deterioration in your relationship with your loved ones.......
If we try and explore the main factors which may lead to a PERFECT RELATIONSHIP, all will come up with different views... So without going in any such controversial details, lets try and explore the reasons which may be the main players behind any unsuccessful relationship..
First of all, comes the DEVIL-est of all, that is DECEPTION... This perhaps, has the most devastating effect on any relationship.. Then comes, not so innocent, EGO.. When ego gets involved in a relationship, there are actually four people, instead of two, trying hard to maintain their ends..... POSSESSIVENESS is yet another factor leading to consequences like OBSESSION, SUSPICION and MISUNDERSTANDINGS, which further aggravate a relationship... Then there are miniature factors like lack of adjustment, lack of quality time given towards a relationship, contradicting views on different issues etc. which may look as MINIATURE, but are actually far worse than the above mentioned reasons..!
So, IN BRIEF, for a relationship to be successful, the main focus should be on how one can stick together... TRUST and HONESTY are the keywords behind this!! None can be selfless enough, but yes, getting rid of your ego, will certainly make your base stronger in a relationship... And in order to do complete justice to any relation, one should be open enough to accept the other with his mindset, even if it takes a little compromise from either ends...
All these will definitely lead to a HAPPY RELATIONSHIP, if not a perfect one!........................ :)
